標籤: 心理落差

戀愛攻略男人的戀愛勝經《第5章：令人歡愉》第十一則：💫 過度糾纏的追求者，不如轉身設局誘她入彀

 

 

有些女人天生防備心強，越是窮追猛打，越是築起高牆。她不是不喜歡你，而是不喜歡失去主動權。

這時，你的退讓反而是攻勢的開始。當你刻意抽離，停止問候、停止糾纏，轉向專注自己生活、展現魅力時，她反而會產生一種心理落差：「他怎麼不見了？」「他是不是不再在乎我了？」

這種失衡感會讓她開始觀察你、重新定義你的位置。欲擒故縱不是冷漠，而是策略；讓她體會失去的可能，才能喚起渴望的真實感。

👋 操作提示

➊ 刻意減少聯繫與互動，但保持朋友圈曝光與魅力展示

➋ 偶爾留下一些耐人尋味的動態與暗示

➌ 不再主動追問，讓她反過來開始關注你

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Love Strategy for Men – Chapter 5: Pleasurable Sparks, Rule 11
Content:
💫 Obsessive pursuit pushes her away—step back to draw her in.

Some women are naturally guarded; the harder you chase, the higher her walls. She doesn’t dislike you—she just hates losing control.

Your retreat becomes the real attack. When you deliberately pull away—stop texting, stop clinging, and focus on your own life while radiating charm—she feels a psychological gap: “Where did he go?” “Does he not care anymore?”

This imbalance makes her watch you, re-evaluate your value. Playing hard to get isn’t coldness—it’s strategy. Let her feel the possibility of loss to awaken true desire.

👋 Practical Tips:
➊ Reduce contact but stay visible on socials with attractive updates.
➋ Drop subtle, intriguing hints occasionally.
➌ Stop initiating—let her start paying attention.

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